So … The New Year is here. 2012! Did 2011 go by fast enough? Was it really 12 months long? Wow! Naturally, this means we all have got resolutions to make, and if you haven't made them, you better do it now. If you don't make them you're either smarter than the rest of us (which we all know is not true), or simply find them to be silly.
While thinking you do not need a resolution is your fair right, please read on with an open mind …
Should we resolve ourselves to Start something, or Stop something?
Start: Working Out
Stop: Smoking
Start: Spending more time with family
Stop: Eating so much
Start: Staying on a budget
Stop: Wasting time
Start: Drinking less
Stop: Drinking more!!
Clearly, this Start/Stop list could go on and on and on and …
No matter your resolution, it is a good idea to look at the past and to make efforts to improve our future actions and habits. You know the saying:
Yesterday is History, Tomorrow a Mystery, Today is a Gift, That’s why it’s called the Present.
This has so much truth to it! Read it again just a bit more slowly:
Yesterday is History, Tomorrow a Mystery, Today is a Gift, That’s why it’s called the Present.
Don’t you agree?
To be honest, I quit making New Year resolutions long ago, but mostly because mine were always too lofty, and I failed, so I quit. But this year is different. I have a resolution that I have already made and will keep. It only has one very simply “Start” command: Start: Focusing on each day, one at a time.
Sounds easy, right? Well I am going to have to make a concerted effort to do this, because I know that I, (and I’ll bet you, too), spend a lot of our time thinking about our past and our future … and POOF … Today is gone.
There is nothing better than looking at each day as a new day that holds opportunity, certainty and surprises. We all know those “live in the moment” quotes …
Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Charles Dederich
We are always getting ready to live, but never live. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
The best thing about the future is that it comes only one day at a time. – Abraham Lincoln
Today is life – the only life you are sure of. Make the most of today. – Dale Carnegie
If you’re still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven’t done much today. Anonymous
Pretty good stuff.
So, here is my promise to myself: As I go through the New Year, I am going to enjoy the beauty of each day. My conversations with people. The gift of each person, friend and family member. The gift of one more day.
Let’s face it, tomorrow may never come … and yesterday is old news!! If we make the best of each day, the weeks, months and years will take care of themselves. Simple stuff and probably easier said than done – but, I am up for the challenge and ready to take it on.
So … Let us not live in the past or in the future. Simply let us savor each day.
DWS
PS: Almost forgot, there is no better time to buy a home than today!!

































